Stereotypically, the society views men as the ones who are responsible for initiating the first kiss. We see this in movies and in literature, however it's up to you to accept those beliefs or not.

Personally I think that a man is the one who should make the first kiss.

So, if you're a girl,

and you want a guy to kiss you, generally the main rule, if you sense that he is attracted to, is to be accepting of his advances and make him feel validated (as in making him good by doing his step-by-step advances), then he is much more likely to kiss you, since he will feel accepted and validated. Some of the signs that he likes you and wants to kiss you are:

• Giving you more attention than to others

• Complimenting you

• Being close to you, touching your or teasing you playfully

• Smiling at you

• Looking deep into your eyes

So, if you want him to kiss you, simply welcome his attention and flirt back by doing those same things. He will feel good about himself and will likely kiss you, once the right moment comes around, such as when two of you alone together.

If you're a guy,

don't really expect that a girl will kiss you, since the society in general makes them feel like a man should make a move. It's much better to take the initiative yourself in taking steps that lead to a kiss. There really aren't any steps for a guy to take to make a girl kiss him, since most girls just won't do it, simply because they feel that it's not acceptable.