What is a French kiss?

A French kiss is essentially a prolonged, more passionate and captivating kiss with lots of tongue that two people engage in after they built an initial kissing comfort with each other.

How do you French kiss?

French kissing uses much more tongue than regular kissing. The thing though is not to thrust your tongue into your partner's or date's mouth. You have to carefully, yet passionately touch their tongue with yours. The tongue has to be relaxed and not forceful. This brings the most pleasure to you and to your partner. Those of us who kissed before know that one person who always used to thrust their tongue into our mouths :) Not exactly pleasant to say the least, but it can be if another person likes it. Personally i haven't really found anyone who likes it, however sometimes during sex, during the more passionate moments, I may thrust my tongue into my partner's mouth :)

There are different theories on how to use your lips. Personally I prefer not to "suck" on another person's lips, rather let my lips be relaxed, yet not too relaxed. I may suck on my partner's lips slightly, as in smooching them, but not overly extensive and energetic with saliva all over... yuck ;) Although some people might enjoy this type of kiss, so if your partner and you enjoy it, but all means do it.

Some French kissing involves tongue more than lips (you play with your tongue more than with your lips), or you can play with your lips more than with the tongue or you can do both. Usually French kissing is very arousing to both man and a woman due to sheer amount of passion expressed in such kiss.

French kissing can last for minutes or even hours (there are even French kissing competitions!), as opposed to regular kissing, which is often brief yet, can be as passionate as French kiss.

Transitioning to French kissing is usually a natural expansion of regular kiss and "just happens" as you get more and more comfortable with your partner. So, don't worry that you didn't French kiss your partner the first day you kissed him :) Even though if you're comfortable with yourself, you may attempt to lead and transition to French kissing as you're kissing and see how your partner reacts. Most of the time, they will react positively, because they most likely do want to indulge in it with you if they are attracted to you and are already kissing you :)